That nobody cares about you unless you’re sharing memes and being silly. People have a very obscure way of handling any ounce of negativity and struggles one is going through. They’re there for your victories, but aren’t there for you, for your losses.
I find it so offensive to see people I know saying things online that they should not even be discussing in a public in-person setting.
You can’t unknow who are bigots, and what they think about the things you hold sacred.