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  • I’m also not even very likely to be the target of an attack unlike a woman and I feel this way

    You are technically 3 times more likely to be murdered as a male than as a female though (this number varies by source to be fair, but males are always higher). Now if you remove partner violence (since the post is about random men), that number is even more disproportionate.

    The parent point remains though, you’re ascribing an ill on a huge group (half of the entire population!). At best, it’s lazy, low resolution thinking. At worst it’s the source of prejudice, and ill will.

    Again, I don’t care. It’s a silly joke, but I’m not going to sit here and pretend to not get why others might be offended by it.





  • You don’t get it? I’m not upset by it, but it makes sense that others might.

    What if instead of men it said Jewish people? Black men? Short Asian females? Brown folks? Makes it a little more obvious why it would be problematic no?

    It’s casting blame/shame on an incredibly large group for no particular reason (humor?). It’s just a dumb joke, but again, I get why some might be offended a bit.