Send in bucket.

Awesome job!

I like that. It makes the fight to keep breathing another day something not strictly out of selfishness. Because you’re right, if everyone stopped fighting those fights we’d lose a lot of people, not just trans ppl, and yeah, the world would be solely populated by hard uncaring Viltrumites.

Kindness must persevere.

Ah yes, for comparison my parents was built year 2000. 22 year difference in quality!

There might have been advances to that tech, maybe it’s better thermally regulated now. My parents house had it in the kitchen and I think it was relatively new concept when house was built, I found the heat to be a bit uneven, a bit uncomfortable in some spots.

Can also use Pi KVM to add a similar capability to non server grade hardware that doesn’t have it. I did that for a workstation once.

To add to these ideas, I’ve heard of a 4 bank account system for couples.

1. Joint Checking where living expenses can come from.

2. Joint Savings for shared investments. Requires two signatures to move money out.

And then each gets a personal account with their spending money that each gets to do whatever they want with.

So like… How possible would it be that you thaw something like that out and you release some kinda doom virus?

Lol, fair point

Might be a patience thing too? Most cookies will take some time to really absorb a meaningful amount of milk. Like Oreos take a good 10 seconds submerged. You can see bubbles as milk replaces air in the cookie.

There are some rare cookies that will absorb the milk way faster, like Keebler Vienna Fingers will be soaked in like a couple of quick dunks.

Lost track of how many times I’ve looped Seinfeld.

Yo ho!

I will have milk with things like cookies or chocolate cake. And milk is mandatory for Oreos.

Maybe it’s not being female led that’s the problem, it’s Mary Sue’s that I think people are tired of.

I mean… It’s a feeling. Dysphoria is a complex thing, it’s not as clear cut as, let’s skip right to surgery.

https://www.healthline.com/health/transgender/can-gender-dysphoria-go-away

Therapy and/or hormone treatment certainly might make enough difference to not require surgery anymore.

Let’s not pretend that the act of transitioning is something that should be taken lightly. There are trans people who have been wholly unprepared for actually living life as the opposite gender and kill themselves. For example, I’m seeing cases of Female to Male trans saying they were completely unprepared for how lonely it is to live as a man compared to a woman. So for some of them that negative feeling of loneliness ended up being even more detrimental and unpleasant to them than the original dysphoria.

Why would you marry a bad spouse? You should figure that out before you marry them.

How about this, what’s the point of marriage? If it can be discarded at a whim, what does it mean in the first place?

I mean the problem with this entire discussion is marriage has no standard meaning anymore. Traditionalists think of it as a sacred vow, taking till Death do us part very seriously. Others think of it as some irrelevant social construct and an excuse to have a party.

I’m in the camp of it’s forever or it it’s pointless. Life is change. People change. The work that goes into marriage is the work of ensuring you grow together, not grow apart. I wouldn’t marry anyone that didn’t agree.

I guess that’s the bottom line. Make sure you both define marriage the same way before you get married. Which sounds obvious but… ::gestures around::

AF1 probably needs a database just for it’s in in-flight menu.

He didn’t say the SSN database isn’t SQL. He said the GOVERNMENT doesn’t use SQL.

No I’m saying the person who ends the marriage shouldn’t get anything. And I’m saying you shouldn’t marry someone you would leave.

Well personally, I think the vows you make when you marry should be treated as a contract. I mean it sounds as much like a verbal contract as can possibly exist. Which would make the person who breaks the contract the person at fault.

You may as well say we should get rid of all contracts in general instead of trying to find someone to blame in the event of breach. A noble sentiment, but not particularly practical.