

Not only do I see your comment, it’s not yet buried even 5 days after you’ve made it.
For anything important, use matrix instead of lemmy DMs.
Not only do I see your comment, it’s not yet buried even 5 days after you’ve made it.
Where can I report that my dead grandad was advocating violence on Juno beach in 1944?
Not what you asked but there are pottery shops where you can sign up for a course and make your own clay pot.
Lemmy does exponential backoff with something like this:
retry_in = min(1.25^retry_count, 24*3600)
Basically, the timer for the next retry will grow exponentially until it reaches 1 day, then it continues to retry every day.
By that time, about 5 days will have gone by going through the previous retry failures.
If will eventually give up and mark as dead but I don’t remember the threshold for that.
Speaking from experience?
That seems rough.
Browse by ‘subscribed’ instead of ‘all’.
Block communities you dislike that you dislike this much.
Unlike ShitBook and TwitHeil, you’re the one curating your feed here and not some algorithm clickbait algorithm.
That was supposed to be ‘address’ as in email address, not sure how autocorrect figured that one.
Yes and no… say if you gave the email address lemmyworldthingy@sgarcnlsdomain.com when signin up and you start receiving garbage on it, you just delete the alias and move on.
The trick is that you can have several aliases go into the same inbox so you only have to check one place, but each thing is given its own IP making it easier to identify and filter culprits.
In your settings you should be able to choose a different theme.
darkly-red
is what I use, I imagine it’s also available on lemmy.world.
Buying your own domain.
You can then use whatever provider, or host your email service… but at least you don’t need to change addresses when switching anymore.
Report the DM. These go to both instance admins involved (sender’s and recipient’s instances)
GENERAL KENOBI
Kinda like people complaining Rage Against the Machine becoming political.
Always has been.
The shopping/dressing part, imho, is whatever, maybe even cute.
Kids being wary of parental embarrassment is as old as time.
That last message though is really the big one: how to behave and what to say.
Disclaimer: I know nothing about your daughter, the following isn’t meant as advice.
On one hand, she wants you to be part of this.
On the other hand, it seems like covering up who you are is (mostly?) to cover up who poeple there might think she is?
It’s like she’s worried that people there will think she doesn’t belong if it is made evident that you don’t. I think she’s worried about not fitting in herself and you bringing attention to that fact.
Asking you to play a role is kinda wack… but then it may be that she’s been thinking all this time that she has to be playing the part too. Idk if cute or sad or both. Impostor syndrome in a relationship maybe, idk.
Honey, just hire actors at this point.
Me? I’d go all in.
Full-on wizard staff and pipe, or the old monopoly monocle look.
If I’m about to dress up and play a role, I might as well play as someone from the wait staff or go all out medieval bourgeois and convince people I’m a noble from a far off land that no one there has heard about, like Earl of Canada.
Sorry we’re late, customs was being picky about sword lengths and I had to leave another trebuchet to one of them meddlesome varlets.
A den of savages.
We couldn’t find the stables, my dear, if you’d be so kind as to have one of your footmen help the stable boy.
They scared them more than killed them even.
That and loading children comments… but only from a single thread, load more, lpad more, show all comments or context or whatever.
The UI became garbage along the way.
There’s plenty of bans to go around, but mostly spam and the odd pathetic bigot.
When I discovered lemmy… I thought it was nice just being able to browse and not be immediately assaulted by several popups to login, cookies, or the classic “download our app” bullshit.
I know people love their apps, but the web UI works. Browsers have great features already like tabs, bookmarks, adblockers, etc.
What year is it? 1999?
Your own user might have root, but the ansibke user probably isn’t.
You can enable ansible privilege escalation by adding
become: true
in your yaml file.It is likely safer in the long run to set it for a specific task than globally.