

When someone asks you questions, it’s also an opportunity to ask them questions back, to find out if you’re heading for an environment you don’t wanna be in.
- THEM: Is work/life balance important to you?
- YOU: So, obviously my family’s important to me. I always do my job, though. What kind of expectations to you have here?
- THEM: Well… (look at each other nervously. look up at the cameras monitoring them.) We’re expected to make work a priority…
Aw yeah, if you already know your rolls and breakfalls, Aikido is a great thing to check out. At lower levels, the “attacks” are basically two-person katas, usually involving escaping from grabs. At upper levels they do have something called randori but even then it’s all very structured. Aikido gets made fun of sometimes for not having a “live” adversary who’s actively trying to beat you. I’ve read there are some dojos that do competitive Aikido, but I think that’s rare.