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  • It seems “woke” come from groups of activists uniting in the belives that as long as their will be some kind of discriminations they will all be in a threat.

    Therefore, all discriminated (including those who were, and those who could become) should unit and oppose, both to that discrimination and to the principle of discrimination.

    Just as you may or not be actualy victim of some type of racism, but if you have some origines that could become discriminated some day. And the woke view is that you should refuse and oppose all kind of discrimination based on race or origines, because as long as one is seen as acceptable, yours could become (remain, or become back) at threat.

    This as made a big union of groups opposed to conservative views. So feminist would also fight against racism, etc.

    So by extension and out of fear, “woke” is the union of all type of those who do not fully follow the actual system ; at least for those who fully follow it.



  • You are right, I didn’t see she threw a chair at him ; just that she threw a chair.

    Also, I don’t think all those who have had a bad behavior are needingly bad persones. It seems to have happend once, monthes ago, because of anger. By deduction, it was the worse she has ever done ; and we don’t know the context (but Op decided to remain with her after that).

    Right or not, Op seems to wish to keep the relationship and to improve it. Maybe you would not if you were in his shoes, and I don’t know if I would. I don’t know if I would agree with your life choices either. But I agree to respect both yours and Op’s own life choices.

    And finally, if I someday ask advices to improve my relationship, I would not expect to be suggested to leave, but to be given advices on how to improve it. Else I would be asking advice on “should I maintain this relationship”… So I am sorry you be disappointed that I answer the way I would wish to be answered ; but I encourage you to try to juge less at others.




  • They are different distros, and fork of distros, of a same original project. Yet it is sad to see how the trolls of the different branches are aggressive toward others.

    Don’t you think switching to Linux could help them in finding better ways to promote their favorite distro?

    Yet, I admit linuxians too tend to have a favorite distro they fight for even if they haven’t tried most others, and therefore without knowing if theirs is really better…








  • Are you in an emergency? And have you evaluated alternatives ?

    There are long but reversible ways to avoid male’s fertility ; such as temperature method ; which aren’t advertised because they are not profitable to sellers.

    Basically, at body temperature, balls don’t produce semen (they are naturally hanging out in order to be cold enough). So any tight and heat keeping underware may work. Maintain them at body temperature at least 16h a day. After 2 monthes, check your sperm count with over the counter tests, if your count is clearly too low you are doing things right.

    To reverse it, wear underwares that allow your balls to hang and refresh themselves. Count 2 to 3 monthes to fully recover.

    There are also chimical alternatives, and some tools to make the temperature method “more secure” (if that tools really work).

    Vasectomy may still be the best for you, but you may feel more confident in doing it if you know why you prefers it to alternatives.