Husband, Father, Gamer, Nerd

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I suffer night terrors, not horribly frequently, but frequently enough that they are memorable experiences. I wake up screaming and I apparently scream very loudly.

    Entertainingly they have a common theme across all the years I’ve been having them (they started in my teens, so over 40 years). The always feature men in black leather trenchcoats (think SS), dogs, concertina razor wire, an cliff’s edges.

    I always end up dead either from machine gun fire or going over the cliff.

    I blame The Great Escape.

    I would love to be able to wake up before the screaming starts.




  • I think there is a lot of wisdom here. I’m old, many of my meaningful relationships were formed before three was an internet. Now I use online tools to stay in touch with friends who are friends I have interacted with face-to-face, not people know solely online.

    That’s not to say meaningful relationships cannot be owned online. I have met a number of people IRL who I originally met playing Football Manager or on XBox Live.

    But online relationships are not a substitute for real face-to-face interactions.

    I tell people that making friends needs to be intentional. It takes work and commitment.








  • And liberal sources don’t?

    • The laptop is Russian disinformation.

    • The vaccine will prevent you from getting Covid.

    • The Steele dossier proves that Trump is in bed with the Russians.

    That’s just off the top of my head.

    Mr. Musk believes that Wikipedia has become a mouthpiece for the left. Based on their list of Reliable Sources, how do you counter his argument?



  • My middle son’s girlfriend is my Secret Santa recipient. She is really into mechanical keyboards. So she’s getting a new backplate, 100 new switches, and keys that are painted as one of her favorite anime characters.

    My daughter wants to learn to DM, so she’s getting a D&D adventure book. Not related to DMing but also tickets to Hamilton this summer.

    My wife wanted a trailer hitch for her Pallisade, so that is what she’s getting.

    I’m pleased with all of them.


  • Hey man, my wife got two all-expense paid vacations to Iraq in 06 and 09 (she’s a lifer so she’s still in). She has lost some folk and it hits her hard. I’m just a civilian, and can’t fully fathom all you went through, but I’m grateful to you.

    I will tell you this, you’re buddy Steve would not want you to be miserable at all, and especially at the holidays. I know enough Soldiers to know exactly what he’d be telling you.

    Always remember your friend. But give yourself permission to enjoy the holidays.