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Cake day: July 21st, 2024

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  • Kinda sounds like you might feel at home in the polyamory community.

    Lots of people who aren’t “in it” don’t have that sort of energy

    I have a hard time imagining telling my wife that “I’m not comfortable” with her doing something she wants to do unless it is something outright dangerous.

    Its just a matter of boundaries and agreements really. Most mono couples have an implied set of rules rather than customising their relationship experience by doing the work to define boundaries together. Very much a societal thing i think.

    Whether or not you were planning on swinging, that option is now in Wills head and he’s afraid Janet might participate.

    In the end it’s just jealousy, but most people struggle with that emotion some times, no matter their relationship type.







  • Yeah couple of options here:

    • he’s the guy but is irrational, mentally whatever and not the calculated genius the online hype has built him up to be
    • he’s the guy and intentionally got himself caught / planned to give himself up for a variety of possible reasons (acting as a public figure, mental instability, guilt, sense of righteousness/justice idk)
    • he’s not the guy and the information on the gun and ID is false or misrepresented
    • he’s not the guy but a whole slew of planted evidence, fake/exaggerated reporting etc make him out to be the guy, which imo seems like the most conspiracy-nutty take. not saying it’s not possible but it seems the least likely.








  • Yeah I was thinking of TOR when I read about the concept, but I did read a lot in the past how a lot of the nodes aren’t really secure anymore.
    I’ll check out the other suggestions. The sidebar doesn’t mention piracy, so I’ll just come out the gate and say that that’s my usecase via torrents.
    Which can get pretty expensive where I live due to absurd legal definitions. My thought process was if a P2P VPN gets me through another country where it’s not persecuted as much I’d be safer than going with the proprietary big names.