my girlfriend really doesn’t like my friend of several years. she is constantly snippy with him and she and her friends, i’ve heard, talk behind his back and say stuff about how annoying he is.
i was treated the exact same way when i was bullied, so it really got me reminded of that and i got a little upset but thought i overreacted.
i’m giving her the benefit of the doubt, just wanted to share that. i hope i’m dating a nice person and not secretly a bully.
edit: we broke up.
do you have many friends? if so is this one closer than others? Its a red flag if she is trying to mess with your support system which is something some people do. well and cults.
this one is my friend who is my best friend but she didn’t know we were friends at all, she just thought he was some guy. we broke up anyway.