This isn’t mildlyinfuriating, this is terrifying
I’m coming back to do something fucker
I will make u so mad
400 missed calls
Rejection is hard, but there is no embarrassing way I’ve reacted to rejection in my life that makes me feel as gross and wrong as I feel reading that.
You might wanna contact law enforcement if he comes over to your house without your permission
Since the convo states 2017 as the date, I assume OP is not the source and/or the issue is not acute anymore.
Definitely a “call the police” situation
What makes me chuckle the most is the fact that OP’s psycho ex partner can be either female or male and yet here we are (or at least I am) thinking that the psychotic ex partner is of the opposite sex
8th message middle row; heterosexual relationships are the most common globally.
Not necessarily, I am a heterosexual male and my best female friends refer to me as girl. Just cus you get called girl on my side of the planet doesn’t mean that you’re a girl by any means, either way we won’t know unless OP discloses their partner’s sex.
The psycho ex is being threatening and an asshole, I doubt they’re using the term “girl” just in a jokey and endearing way. Has more of a “you are my girl” vibe.
Edit: also, the “bitch” and “whore” are dead giveaways lol
Fair enough, taking this into account, then as the original commenter said, they’re most likely male. But it still interests me how as a collective society our reactions change based on these facts
This is called “start a chain of paperwork with the police”. They of course won’t do much to help but it’s good for future restraining order proceedings.
Because you’re gonna have future restraining order proceedings.
Also gives the police a head start when investigating your murder
*if you are a white girl younger than 30
*and he’s not rich
I’d send those screenshots to their mom
Maybe not even a bad idea. The police probably doesn’t do shit, but the mom (or dad) might smack some sense into him. At the very least they can keep an eye on him with other girls.
I’ve known a few parents who will straight up tell their kids date to run. 😂
Op please seek law enforcement. At least so they have something from YOU on file. That’s fucking scary behavior Op for real. Be safe!
This goes well beyond mildly.
Just mildlyinfuriating? 😳
Restraining Order… save this nonsense, get a lawyer and get a restraining order… that is not mildly infuriating, its downright dangerous
This person needs psychiatric help. But OOP needs to call the police and I’d wager that has far more priority.
*Edited OP to OOP, since OP likely didn’t receive these messages themself.
That’s not “mildly infuriating,” that’s straight-up scary. Call the cops.
This person is “mildly” mentally ill and you need to stay away from them and also call the police and get a restraining order. Holy shit!!!
That’s basically it. Romantic obsession can look a lot like mental illness, and definitely feels like it. Being charitable to the guy, he might look back on this and wonder what the hell was going on in his head.
I know I’ve been through a breakup that nearly killed me, and sheer white-knuckling restraint is the only thing that stopped me acting like this. It’s like a bereavement, but you also know the person is twenty minutes down the road.
Or he might have been like this through the whole relationship, who knows.
If you don’t contact the authorities at least make sure lots of your loved ones know about this.
Let’s see: Denial, anger, depression, bargaining. Everything, but acceptance.
Ok, that is a potential dangerous person you don’t want in your life. Be polite, calm and non provocative and get away from her. In the end she will switch her fixation from you.
The screenshots say it’s from 2017 but good on ya for being supportive
Hihi, didn’t catch the date 😁. I guess that if is he’s here to post this thing went well for him, he survived 😜!
I think you swapped the genders there. I was thinking the same at first, but the last panel makes me think that it’s a man harassing a woman.
Honestly I think they could be anything because the words are so mashed together it’s hard to make a conclusion …
This is going to be exhibit number 1 at his murder trial
Consider getting a restraining order
Honestly, considering the last two texts, a restraining order is only a piece of paper, she should get a gun too unless she can carry a police officer around with her.
Dude was crazy the whole time but “I’m going to come back and do something” is actually pretty serious imo, and the cops won’t act on it as a threat in my area because it is too unspecific, so I’m on my own.